How to be unapologetically you – with Janet English

EPISODE 5

With stories from Spiderbait's gloriously imperfect beginnings and the misfits of Melbourne's early punk scene, Ren and Janet explore why trusting yourself matters more than winning approval, and how fun, friendship and creative experimentation can lead to extraordinary things. A joyful reminder that being unapologetically yourself isn't about being the loudest person in the room.

For more than 30 years, Janet English has been doing things her own way. As bassist, vocalist and co-founder of Spiderbait – one of Australia's most iconic bands – she's helped pave the way for women in Australian rock, challenging conventions and expectations along the way.

“ I've always had a healthy sense of, I don't really care what someone else thinks.”

JANET ENGLISH

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REFLECTION QUESTIONS

Take a moment to reflect. Each episode leaves you with questions worth more than a quick answer. There are no right answers — just an invitation to listen to what comes up.


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Who are the people who have paved the way for me, and what have they taught me about being myself?

When did I last do something purely for the fun of it, without worrying about whether I was any good?

Where in my life do I need to set better boundaries to protect my own wellbeing?

TRY THIS

Turn the conversation into action. Insight fades fast unless you do something with it. The exercise below is a small, practical experiment inspired by this episode’s guest — designed to move an idea from your headphones into your week. Start before you feel ready.


Find your Inner Punk Rocker

What would you create if you didn't care what anyone else thought? Inspired by Janet English's punk-rock philosophy, this worksheet invites you to unleash your creativity, forget about being perfect and find the freedom to express yourself your way. No talent, experience or musical ability required.

GUEST SPOTLIGHT

JANET ENGLISH

Janet English is the bassist, vocalist and co-founder of iconic Australian rock band Spiderbait – a band that has helped shape the Australian alternative rock scene for more than three decades.

From their beginnings in regional NSW to chart-topping hits including Buy Me a Pony, Calypso and Black Betty, Spiderbait has become one of Australia's most beloved bands, earning induction into the ARIA Hall of Fame in 2026.

A trailblazer for women in Australian rock, Janet's distinctive voice and songwriting are celebrated on Sounds in the Key of J, a collection of her Spiderbait songs. And her creative journey continues, with a solo album on the way.

Through it all, Janet has stayed true to the DIY, inclusive and rebellious spirit of punk that inspired her from the beginning.

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